Prepare for a Family Photo Shoot (Without Losing Your Mind)

by Zara Sarson – candid family photographer on the Gold Coast

If you’re wondering how to prepare for your upcoming family photo session — or you're just thinking about booking one — here’s my honest, slightly cheeky, and actually useful guide. Whether it’s your first time or your fifteenth, these tips will help you feel relaxed, confident, and ready for photos that feel like you.

1. Don’t aim for “perfect.” Aim for real.

The best family photos aren’t the posed, Pinterest-perfect ones. They’re the honest ones — the big hugs, messy hair, real belly laughs. Your kids don’t need to sit still. In fact, I hope they don’t. The more natural and relaxed you are, the more magic we’ll capture.

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2. What to wear for a photoshoot? Start with comfort.

Wear clothes that feel like you — just elevated. Think: flowy dresses that move beautifully, layered knits, denim, linen, earthy tones, or a pop of colour if that’s your thing. Avoid big logos or bright neons. You don’t need to match — just complement each other. If you’re stuck, I can help with outfit planning or offer pieces from my client wardrobe.

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3. Snacks = yes. Pressure = nope.

Bribes? Totally fine. But try not to put pressure on your kids to behave or “smile nicely.” That energy never works. Trust me — I’ve photographed hundreds of kids, and the wild ones are usually my favourites.

4. Forget the rules. Play instead.

The most beautiful photos often happen in the in-between moments — when no one’s looking at the camera. Let your kids run, dance, snuggle, climb on your shoulders. Let your guard down. These are the photos that become keepsakes.

5. Give yourself space before and after.

If you’re booking a morning session, don’t rush. If we’re shooting in the afternoon, don’t plan anything too structured before or after. You want to arrive calm(ish), with full bellies and minimal stress. After the shoot, go to the beach, grab a treat, or head home for a slow evening. This isn’t just a photo shoot — it’s a memory in the making.